Lesson 5: Design Your Dream Relationship
The Nodes: Your Soulmate GPS
My South Node is in (zodiac sign): __________________________________________
My South Node is in my _______________ house
My North Node is in (zodiac sign): __________________________________________
My North Node is in my _______________ house
In your journal or worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts.
Using my South Node, I can draw on these innate talents to anchor myself when I feel upset, ungrounded or uncertain. Since this is my home turf advantage, how can I bring these gifts to relationships to foster love and connection? |
Utilizing my North Node, I can challenge myself to stretch and grow in these ways when my life or relationship feels stuck or stagnant. How might I appreciate or look for these qualities in a partner? |
If your South Node (SN) is in this sign or house, you may have mastery over this quality/realm in love and relationships: | If your North Node (NN) is in this sign or house, you are here to develop this quality/realm in love and relationships: | |
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SN: Aries/1st House NN: Libra/7th House | Independence/boundaries, assertiveness, vocalizing your feelings (and enjoying a dynamic debate), sharing a sexy physicality | Co-creating (with an equal give and take), compromise, peaceful resolution, enjoying decadence and luxury together |
SN: Taurus/2nd House NN: Scorpio/8th House | Affection, sensuality, upholding traditions (anniversaries, family holidays, etc.) creating a comfortable and beautiful shared home, loyalty and possessiveness | Erotic expression, honoring your need for private time and your own secrets, playing with power dynamics to keep stoke the sexy sparks |
SN: Gemini/3rd House NN: Sagittarius/9th House | Being best friends with your lover, clearly communicating thoughts and ideas that keep the relationship interesting; creating fun, play and magic on a day-to-day basis (enjoying the moment and "the little things.") | Taking bigger risks in the name of love, embracing your autonomy and wholeness within and without relationships; traveling/learning/starting a business with your partner |
SN: Cancer/4th House NN: Capricorn/10th House | Cohabitating and enjoying domestic bliss, creating a family vibe with your partner (and their friends and relatives; expression devotion through nurturing and TLC | Creating structures for long-term success in love, detaching from emotions to solve problems rationally, co-creating financial security and family legacies |
SN: Leo/5th House NN: Aquarius/11th House | Passionate romantic expression, creating glamorous/fun/playful dates to keep the magic alive; co-creating through shared creative outlets or making babies; fierce protectiveness of the one you love | Building a community and friend group together, advancing a shared cause (through activism or humanitarian service work), being experimental and open to unconventional ways of "doing relationships." |
SN: Virgo/6th House NN: Pisces/12th House | Upholding structures and traditions that create workability in relationships, being of selfless service to your partner, inspiring and maintaining healthy habits within the relationship, planning— everything from dates to household budgets | Creating fantasy and romantic escapes from the everyday, boundless empathy and emotional support for a partner, unconditional love, connecting without words |
SN: Libra/7th House NN: Aries/1st House | Co-creating (with an equal give and take), compromise, peaceful resolution, enjoying decadence and luxury together | Independence/boundaries, assertiveness, vocalizing your feelings (and enjoying a dynamic debate), sharing a sexy physicality |
SN: Scorpio/8th House NN: Taurus/2nd House | Erotic expression, honoring your need for private time and your own secrets, playing with power dynamics to keep stoke the sexy sparks | Affection, sensuality, upholding traditions (anniversaries, family holidays, etc.) creating a comfortable and beautiful shared home, loyalty |
SN: Sagittarius/9th House NN: Gemini/3rd House | Taking bigger risks in the name of love, embracing your autonomy and wholeness within and without relationships; traveling/learning/starting a business with your partner | Being best friends with your lover, clearly communicating thoughts and ideas that keep the relationship interesting; creating fun, play and magic on a day-to-day basis (enjoying the moment and "the little things.") |
SN: Capricorn/10th House NN: Cancer/4th House | Creating structures for long-term success in love, detaching from emotions to solve problems rationally, co-creating financial security and family legacies | Cohabitating and enjoying domestic bliss, creating a family vibe with your partner (and their friends and relatives); expressing devotion through nurturing and TLC |
SN: Aquarius/11th House NN: Leo/5th House | Building a community and friend group together, advancing a shared cause (through activism or humanitarian service work), being experimental and open to unconventional ways of "doing relationships." | Passionate romantic expression, creating glamorous/fun/playful dates to keep the magic alive; co-creating through shared creative outlets or making babies; fierce protectiveness of the one you love |
SN: Pisces/12th House NN: Virgo/6th House | Creating fantasy and romantic escapes from the everyday, boundless empathy and emotional support for a partner, unconditional love, connecting without words | Upholding structures and traditions that create workability in relationships, being of selfless service to your partner, inspiring and maintaining healthy habits within the relationship, planning— everything from dates to household budgets |