Lesson 5: Design Your Dream Relationship
Composite Nodes: Our Relationship Destiny GPS

Our composite South Node is in (zodiac sign): _______________________________
Our composite South Node is in the _______________ house
Our composite North Node is in (zodiac sign): _______________________________
Our composite North Node is in the _______________ house
In your journal or worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts.
What does our composite South Node reveal about our relationship's comfort zone? How can we lean in to this energy when the relationship feels chaotic, uncertain or totally off the rails? This is the way to bring things back to center; the relationship's "home turf." |
Utilizing our North Node, how can we challenge ourselves to stretch and grow when our connection feels stuck, stagnant or unsexy? Are we resisting or avoiding tapping into this energy? What fears might be getting in the way, and how can we help each other to overcome them in the name of our relationship's evolution? |
If your composite South Node (SN) is in this sign or house, you may have ease (or a karmic flow) around: | If your composite North Node (NN) is in this sign or house, your shared destiny—and learning curve as a pair—may be: | |
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SN: Aries/1st House NN: Libra/7th House | Supporting each other's independence and ambitious pursuits. Discovering new activities and sharing adventures (this may be your first lifetime together!)Vocalizing your opinions and speaking up for what you each believe in. Having dynamic debates (even as "foreplay.") | Learning how to share, compromise and cooperate. Figuring out how to be great partners without giving up TOO much individuality (and becoming resentful). Creating peace, harmony and serenity—choosing your battles! Supporting each other's interests, even when they aren't your own. |
SN: Taurus/2nd House NN: Scorpio/8th House | Creating comfort, financial security and a grounded life together. Enjoying "responsible decadence." Celebrating, planning and enjoying traditions. Supporting each other's daily routines. Saving up for a rainy day—and a sunny beach vacation. Affection, TLC and sensuality. | Amplifying sexiness—exploring the soulful and sensual depths of your erotic bond, giving each other privacy and permission to be vulnerable about difficult emotions, choosing magic over the mundane—even if that means breaking out of a comfortable routine, building wealth through investments (real estate, stock portfolio, etc.) |
SN: Gemini/3rd House NN: Sagittarius/9th House | Friendship (being BFFs and lovers), playful communication, sharing day-to-day routines and activities, playdates, interest in similar cultural activities (from movies to music), sense of humor, intellectual curiosity and stimulation, being together 24/7 | Sharing adventures (traveling, sports, learning together), having difficult—but honest—conversations, allowing yourselves the freedom to pursue independent paths and activities, taking risks that allow you to evolve as a couple |
SN: Cancer/4th House NN: Capricorn/10th House | Nesting and creating a home, building a family and connecting to each other's relatives, bonding emotionally and tuning in to each other's feelings, caretaking for each other (may have a parental vibe at times), enjoying comfortable silence and quiet co-existence, working together creatively (cooking, decorating, co-hosting, etc.) | Planning for long-term comfort and security, wealth-building and management, collaborating successfully as business partners, supporting each other's career goals and lofty ambitions, leaving a legacy (for your family...or the world!), moving and shaking as a power couple |
SN: Leo/5th House NN: Aquarius/11th House | Indulging in glamour, luxury and high-intensity romantic experiences. Bonding in a heart-centered way, arousing passion (in each other and about life in general). Being fiercely protective of each other. Making babies or being creative partners in other ways like making art or music. Co-leading: being a power couple or the "royals" of a shared realm | Creating a shared community and friend group, joining forces on a humanitarian mission or project, being experimental and adventurous (with travel, learning, or metaphysical experiences), allowing each other the space to be quirky and individualistic, embracing unconventionality in your relationship's rules and format |
SN: Virgo/6th House NN: Pisces/12th House | Keeping each other grounded, stable and financially secure. Supporting each other's healthy routines and wellness goals. Living a conscious and sustainable lifestyle (living simply). Enjoying nature-based activities like outdoor exercise, gardening, camping. Connecting intellectually; keenly analyzing situations and problem-solving together | Releasing rules and rigidity to invite in more romantic flow, exploring (or discussing) fantasies together; escaping from your daily routines for vacations, cultural activities and dream dates. Being compassionate to each other's struggles and making occasional sacrifices to individual desires if it's best for the relationship |
SN: Libra/7th House NN: Aries/1st House | Marriage and committed partnership (you may have been together in many lifetimes), balancing each other's skill sets as complementary forces, being "peaceful warriors" as you fight for justice or lobby for a shared cause, enjoying luxury and romantic experiences | Giving each other space to be independent and explore your individual interests. Trusting in your bond, even when you aren't physically together. Vocalizing disagreements instead of "going along to get along." Learning how to express tougher emotions, such as anger, in a healthy way |
SN: Scorpio/8th House NN: Taurus/2nd House | Magnetic sexual attraction, psychic bond ("Don't I know you from a past life...and did we, perhaps, sleep together?"), emotional intensity, constant rebalancing of power dynamics, building wealth together through investments (real estate, stock portfolio, start-up ventures). | Creating comfort, financial security and a grounded life together. Enjoying "responsible decadence." Releasing possessiveness and allowing each other to have other confidantes besides each other. Not running away during the "boring" moments. |
SN: Sagittarius/9th House NN: Gemini/3rd House | Sharing adventures (traveling, sports, learning together), having difficult—but honest—conversations, allowing yourselves the freedom to pursue independent paths and activities, taking risks that allow you to evolve as a couple | Friendship (being BFFs and lovers), playful communication and a sense of humor, cooperating on day-to-day routines, interest in similar cultural activities (books, movies, music, going out), intellectual curiosity and stimulation, learning to coexist in the same space |
SN: Capricorn/10th House NN: Cancer/4th House | Planning for long-term comfort and security, wealth-building and management, collaborating successfully as business partners, supporting each other's career goals and lofty ambitions, leaving a legacy (for your family...or the world!), moving and shaking as a power couple | Nesting and creating a home, building a family and connecting to each other's relatives, bonding emotionally and tuning in to each other's feelings, enjoying comfortable silence and quiet co-existence, working together creatively (cooking, making art and music, decorating, etc.) |
SN: Aquarius/11th House NN: Leo/5th House | Creating a shared community and friend group, joining forces on a humanitarian mission or project, being experimental and adventurous (with travel, learning, or metaphysical experiences), allowing each other the space to be quirky and individualistic, embracing unconventionality in your relationship's rules and format | Indulging in glamour, luxury and high-intensity romantic experiences. Bonding in a heart-centered way, arousing passion (in each other and about life in general). Being fiercely protective of each other. Making babies or being creative partners in other ways like making art or music. Co-leading: being a power couple or the "royals" of a shared realm |
SN: Pisces/12th House NN: Virgo/6th House | Creating a fairy-tale romance; escaping the harshness of the everyday world together—through high-intensity emotional experiences, slipping off to a private world, music, art (and, in some cases using substances). Supporting each other's dreams. Collaborating creatively. Being connected and compassionate to one another—even to the point of codependence of trying to "rescue" each other at times. | Creating a grounded, stable and financially secure life. Supporting each other's healthy routines and wellness goals. Living in the reality of the material world—where schedules and budgets matter. Learning to be less emotional and more rational so you can keenly analyze situations and problem-solve together—without going off the rails emotionally (or confusing feelings with facts). |