Lesson 3: Design Your Dream Relationship
Saturn: Your Stability GPS
Our Composite Saturn is in (zodiac sign): _________________________
What structures do you need in order to keep the relationship running smoothly? How well do you plan and prepare for the future together? Do you even discuss tomorrow or do you simply "live for the moment"? Your composite Saturn can provide clues about a relationship's longevity. Want to build a strong foundation that cements your bond for a lifetime? Look to your composite Saturn for ideas on how best to do this. Are you the marrying types or do you prefer a more unconventional setup like “conscious non-monogamy”? The rules are yours to make together, of course, and Saturn LOVES rules. But whatever the case, your composite Saturn sign wants you to move ahead with thoughtful intentions and clear agreements in place.
As the ruler of time, your composite Saturn can reveal how patient (or impatient) you are with the process of creating REAL intimacy over the years. Saturn can also be restrictive. Where it lands in your chart may reveal an area where you feel stuck or unwilling to take a chance together. Usually, this is where you need to challenge yourselves, and maybe even bring in an outside mediator or couples' therapist for guidance. Saturn applauds perseverance and can help you create lasting solutions to relationship issues, instead of quick-fixes.
In your PDF worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts. |
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To feel stable in our relationship, we need: |
SATURN SIGNS AND LOVE: SUGGESTED KEYWORDS | ||||
Aries | Attention and positive feedback, consistency, calm, support with sticking to day-to-day structures and routines | |||
Taurus | Regular affection, motivating validation, family loyalty, a relaxing environment...but not so comfortable that you become stagnant | |||
Gemini | Shared social interests, to be listened to/have our ideas and opinions respected, frequent communication (ideally multiple times a day), being best friends with each other | |||
Cancer | Emotional security, safety to express our feelings, family bonding time, a peaceful and nurturing home | |||
Leo | Encouragement to express our voices and talents, words of affirmation, support with managing finances, daily doses of romance | |||
Virgo | Quality time together, shared values and a high level of integrity, daily communication, healthy routines, constructive feedback | |||
Libra | Loving gestures, strong physical attraction, compliments on each other's beauty and style, a clearly stated commitment (ideally leading to marriage) | |||
Scorpio | Respect for each other's privacy and personal space, a soul-deep connection, strong sexual attraction, financial responsibility, unwavering loyalty, attentiveness to each other's specific needs and tastes | |||
Sagittarius | Total honesty, space to explore our independent interests, a warm and welcoming home, a willingness to grow together—to explore the world and learn | |||
Capricorn | A long-term commitment, shared financial values and work ethics, a strong sense of family, to be appreciated (and needed) for what we are each providing | |||
Aquarius | A non-judgmental atmosphere, conscious lifestyle choices (socially, environmentally, etc.), a shared community, being each other's best friends, regular date nights and outings, acceptance of my "eccentricities" | |||
Pisces | Uninterrupted dreamtime, fantasy dates and personalized romantic gestures, confidence-boosting support, appreciation for the "little things" that each of us do, healing touch, a safe space for our highly sensitive emotions | |||
SPECIAL POSITIONS | ||
Domicile | Capricorn | The planet’s home base, an easy flow if placed here in the chart |
Detriment | Cancer | Opposite sign of home base, may need to work harder to integrate the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Exalted | Libra | The planet’s most powerful position, indicates ease and added fortune with using the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Fall | Aries | Opposite sign to the exalted position, can indicate struggles with utilizing the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |