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HOW IT AFFECTS LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

1st

What you wear on a date, being proactive in relationships, what you'll fight about or fight for, features you might play up to make yourself attractive, a need for undivided attention and validation 

2nd

Your values, what you do for pleasure, your sensuality, your style, your taste, the priorities/things that really matter, body image, your touchy-feeliness, what makes you comfortable 

3rd

Your communication style, what kind of dates you plan, activities that you enjoy, where you like to go in the neighborhood together, where you might meet someone in everyday life, influence of friends, siblings and peers on your dating choices, how you banter and flirt, conversation topics you enjoy on a date or in a relationship

4th

What kind of family you want, whether you want kids, approach to parenting, what makes you feel secure and safe, affection style, what makes you feel feminine, parenting style, how you are about meeting someone else’s family, family or neighborhood your potential partner might be from, how nurturing you are

5th

Where you’re feisty and daring, how you express passion and playfulness, how romantic you are, what a romantic date is like for you, your desires, how you express your needs, how you fight, how you might dress to turn heads

6th

What you’re critical of in a partner, where you might overanalyze things, your pet peeves, how well you plan, where you’re supportive, how good of a listener you are, how you like to
be supported, your “love language," where you may be a perfectionist/have overly high standards

7th

Your attitude about commitment, how fair you are, how you collaborate with your partner, what you like to share, what throws you off balance, what you need to feel balanced. What type of wedding and marriage you’ll want

8th

Where you’re jealous, controlling, possessive; your sexual style, your approach to emotional intimacy, trust issues, how you are at sharing resources like money or property, what you like to invest in as a couple or what you like to spend money on

9th

The wisdom you bring to love, where you may be overly hopeful or optimistic, your romantic vacation style, what helps you evolve, what you need to learn in order to grow in a relationship, where you’ll take a chance, where you are confident, the qualities of a partner that inspire you, how you feel about long distance relationships

10th

Long term goals, the public image you want people to have of you as a couple, how you want to be thought of in society, social status, where you have boundaries and reservations, the field your potential partner might work in, where you might be traditional or reserved, how much do you like to plan for the future, where you would go to on an upscale date, your standards 

11th

What kind of singles events you’d to go to, what kind of friends you might have as a couple, group activities you like, how you like to socialize as a couple, how you feel about digital dating, your politics and worldviews, the influence of your friends on your relationship choices

12th

Your blind spot in a relationship, what you’re secretive about, where you might feel sorry for yourself, where you can be deceived, what your fantasies are about, where you want to be swept away, the baggage you bring to a relationship, how you deal with resentment, how compassionate you are towards your partner, how nurturing you are, where you’re gullible, where you may project your own issues onto a partner