Lesson 3: Design Your Dream Relationship
Neptune: Your Fantasy GPS
Our composite Neptune is in (zodiac sign): _________________________
How do you idealize and revere each other? For better or for worse, the composite Neptune sign shows your "blind spots," where you may project a fantasy onto each other or the relationship. Do you want the classic fairy tale or are the two of you turned on by the idea of being a legendary creative couple (or some other unscripted vision of love)? Composite Neptune shows the things you dream about together and what your shared vices and addictions might be. It also reveals where you may need better boundaries! As the planet of compassion and sacrifices, Neptune can even provoke a crisis of codependency if you let its influence overtake your relationship. When you need to merge or are craving more soulful or spiritual time together, let Neptune guide the way.
In your PDF worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts. |
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Our idea of a fantasy may involve: |
NEPTUNE SIGNS AND LOVE: SUGGESTED KEYWORDS | ||||
Aries | N/A | |||
Taurus | N/A | |||
Gemini | N/A | |||
Cancer | N/A | |||
Leo | N/A | |||
Virgo | Sharing a serene and healthy lifestyle, enjoying natural wonders and "the little things," helping each other achieve your dreams | |||
Libra | Glamour, luxury, fawning adoration, being pampered and spoiled, marriage (especially the wedding) | |||
Scorpio | Sharing private time together, erotic exploration and spiritual chemistry, merging assets to create greater security, keeping a bit of mystery (and secrecy) to preserve romance | |||
Sagittarius | Escaping on magical vacations, meeting (and loving) people from different cultures, doing "woo woo" couple's workshops, leading independent lives so as not to "lose yourself" | |||
Capricorn | Creating a long-lasting relationship, combining resources for sustainability, mastering the traditional principles of love and romance, providing for our loved ones, caring for the Earth together | |||
Aquarius | Uniting over activist ideals, building a shared community (or living communally), romance and eroticism that involves virtual/augmented reality, exploring unconventional relationships and relationship structures (i.e. non-monogamy) | |||
Pisces | Sharing and building dreams, exploring (and escaping into) fantasies, transcending the physical and material plane through love and spirituality | |||
SPECIAL POSITIONS | ||
Domicile | Pisces | The planet’s home base, an easy flow if placed here in the chart |
Detriment | Virgo | Opposite sign of home base, may need to work harder to integrate the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Exalted | Cancer + Leo | The planet’s most powerful position, indicates ease and added fortune with using the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Fall | Capricorn + Aquarius | Opposite sign to the exalted position, can indicate struggles with utilizing the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |