Lesson 3: Design Your Dream Relationship
Mercury: Your Communication GPS
Our composite Mercury is in (zodiac sign): _________________________
How do you communicate as a pair—and how often do you need to call, text or check in? Your composite Mercury reveals your conversational style as a couple as well as what the relationship may require socially. In order to bond, do you need lots of face time, a shared friend group, or tons of space to pursue your own interests. Mercury is the organizer and systematizer: Are you dealing with a neat freak or a messy Marvin? It might be worth looking up your composite Mercury sign before you talk about sharing space. Your composite Mercury can dictate how you best socialize as a pair. Who are the people you might BOTH gravitate towards, even if you have different hobbies and interests?
In your PDF worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts. |
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Our communication style might best be described as: |
MERCURY SIGNS AND LOVE: SUGGESTED KEYWORDS | ||||
Aries | Bold, direct, fearless, aggressive, in-your-face, clever | |||
Taurus | Straightforward, to-the-point, attentive to details, demonstrative with affection and gifts (as opposed to words) | |||
Gemini | Inquisitive, articulate, animated, colorful or exaggerating, easily distracted (short attention span) | |||
Cancer | Sensitive to feelings, emotionally mature, low-key, intimate (but sometimes secretive or slow to share how we REALLY feel), bossy or parental | |||
Leo | Dramatic, take-charge, loud, colorful, enthusiastic, competitive | |||
Virgo | Witty, intellectual, analytical, inquisitive, judgmental, detail-oriented, critical | |||
Libra | Diplomatic, gracious, charming, classically romantic, peaceful and easygoing | |||
Scorpio | Observant, engaging, empathic, secretive, erotically or energetically charged | |||
Sagittarius | Over-the-top, hilarious, cocky, exaggerated, open-minded, hopelessly romantic | |||
Capricorn | Pragmatic, mission-oriented, visionary, melancholic, reserved | |||
Aquarius | Entertaining, unconventional, shocking, rule-breaking, open to everything | |||
Pisces | Poetic, compassionate, esoteric, elusive, fantasy-weaving, noncommittal | |||
SPECIAL POSITIONS | ||
Domicile | Gemini + Virgo | The planet’s home base, an easy flow if placed here in the chart |
Detriment | Sagittarius + Pisces | Opposite sign of home base, may need to work harder to integrate the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Exalted | Virgo | The planet’s most powerful position, indicates ease and added fortune with using the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Fall | Pisces | Opposite sign to the exalted position, can indicate struggles with utilizing the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |