Lesson 1: Design Your Dream Relationship
Venus: Your Sensuality GPS
My Venus is in (zodiac sign): _________________________
Venus—and her cosmic copilot Mars—are the lovebirds of the solar system. Your Venus sign reveals your dating style, how you like to be romanced and what will visually attract you. As the sensualist and seductress of the skies, this planet knows how to luxuriate. She refines your sensibilities, reminding you to pause and deeply inhale those roses. Receptivity also falls under Venus’ realm: What do you need in order to feel happy, fulfilled and loved? While the moon governs emotional security, Venus is more about the wining and dining. Affection and physical touch are Venus’ domain, especially when it comes to the pre-coital turn-ons. Are you a hand-holder or do you save it all up for when the lights go down? Your Venus sign can also guide with date planning: What to wear, where to go, how to set the ambience. As the harmonizer of the skies, Venus reveals the way you prefer to bond and keep it “all love” with dates and mates.
In your PDF worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts. |
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I am turned on by: |
VENUS SIGNS AND LOVE: SUGGESTED KEYWORDS | ||||
Aries | Instant chemistry, someone who is a challenge or in-demand, flashy-sexy style, the color red (as in roses and fast cars), getting swept up in physical passion, quick banter, adventurous people | |||
Taurus | Sensual stimulation (silky sheets, rich aromas, decadent meals), traditional values, luxury gifts, massages, sexy music, comfortable bedrooms and lounge spaces, breakfast in bed | |||
Gemini | Flirty texts and banter, love letters and written proclamations of affection, cultural activity dates, wearing each other's clothes, deep metaphysical conversations, bright visual stimulation, flamboyant style | |||
Cancer | TLC, home-cooked meals (in lingerie or PJs), playing house, cuddling, hand-holding, dinner dates, the rush of sentimentality from family bonding | |||
Leo | Glamorous dates, co-hosting parties, taking sexy photos, hair-pulling and other "rough" play, PDA, dates to see live performances or movies, dessert | |||
Virgo | Beautiful walks through nature, being active together, preparing and sharing healthy meals, giving massages, supporting a mate's ambitions, reading side by side, witty banter | |||
Libra | Luxury experiences (dining, travel, spa treatments), sweet romantic gestures, expensive gifts, prolonged foreplay, music, dressing up for parties and cultural events | |||
Scorpio | Intense and mysterious personalities, soulful exchanges, unspoken and powerful chemistry, wearing sexy clothes, shopping for bespoke treasures (especially in black), starlit walks, late night dates to hidden venues and underground clubs | |||
Sagittarius | Traveling and exploring new venues, deep philosophical conversations, cross-cultural mingling, taking workshops with a love interest (or about love), playing with fire (including candles, fireplaces, beach bonfires and HOT attractions), booty-shaking music and dancing | |||
Capricorn | Being out with powerful and accomplished people, a date that's been fully planned (by someone else!), rustic-chic lodges with roaring fireplaces, five-star restaurants with great wine lists and craft cocktails, elegant (and expensive!) style, the art world, marathon dates | |||
Aquarius | Communing at festivals and indie shows, attending activist rallies together, salon-style discussions about the meaning of life, dinner parties, high-minded erotica (VR and AR included), intellectual chemistry, being BFFs with your bae | |||
Pisces | Complex and creative people, healing touch, transcendent metaphysical experiences, sweep-you-off-your feet romantics, aquatic aphrodisiacs (candlelit baths, skinny-dipping, walks on the beach), kink and fetish play | |||
SPECIAL POSITIONS | ||
Domicile | Taurus & Libra | The planet’s home base, an easy flow if placed here in the chart |
Detriment | Scorpio & Aries | Opposite sign of home base, may need to work harder to integrate the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Exalted | Pisces | The planet’s most powerful position, indicates ease and added fortune with using the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Fall | Virgo | Opposite sign to the exalted position, can indicate struggles with utilizing the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |