Lesson 1: Design Your Dream Relationship
The Sun: Your Self-Love GPS
My Sun is in (zodiac sign) ________________________
Great ball of fire! The Sun sign can be thought of as the essence self; the “me” that you show to the world. Solar energy radiates outward—think of sunbeams flooding the daytime sky. How do you represent yourself in the public; what impression do you leave on others? How can you be most radiant? This is what attracts certain people to you in the first place. It’s the special light you shine into the world. Since le Soleil is our energy source, your Sun sign can reveal places to draw your strength, confidence and courage—and keep on keeping on, even when you've had your heart shattered or love seems to be AWOL. The Sun also reveals what you want to be noticed for, the attention and validation you seek from a romantic partner. If not carefully balanced, however, your Sun sign can bring out the demanding diva in you. That’s why it’s so important to learn how to “solar power” yourself, so that your self-love batteries are always full—and not dependent on another person for recharging.
In your PDF worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts. |
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I feel most confident and radiant when I am: |
SUN SIGNS AND LOVE: SUGGESTED KEYWORDS | ||||
Aries | Leading people on an adventure, trying new things, doing something physical, sharing new discoveries, showing off my talents, succeeding at an exciting (and competitive) challenge, sharing an inspiring one-on-one experience | |||
Taurus | Enjoying decadent meals, pampering myself, spending time in nature, celebrating traditions, dressing up, attending cultural (arts) events, curating a beautiful environment | |||
Gemini | Diving into deep and metaphysical discussions, socializing with inspiring people, inventing something new, exchanging witty banter or wordplay, discovering cutting-edge artists and thought-leaders, sharing inspiration | |||
Cancer | Creating something from scratch or by hand, sharing comfort food, steeped in the arts, reading in a cozy nook, spending time near water, bonding with family and BFFs, decorating my home or workspace | |||
Leo | Entertaining the crowds, attending a glamorous or A-lister event, dancing and celebrating, pampering myself with luxury, watching an artistic performance, leading a project or organization, looking at old photos (or having a photoshoot!) | |||
Virgo | Enjoying my wellness routines, spending time outside in nature, playing entertainment director for friends, working with my hands, writing out my thoughts (in a journal or even a blog), organizing and balancing the energy in my space, giving great advice | |||
Libra | Indulging in luxury experiences (yachts, 5-star hotels, Michelin-rated meals), listening to live music, getting spa treatments, hosting parties and events, sharing philosophical conversations, balancing mind and body through meditation and yoga, shopping for a fancy outfit...then hitting the town! | |||
Scorpio | Treasure-hunting for rare finds from vinyl to vintage wines, intensely engaged with a passion project, attracting people with my quiet mystique, flirting with strangers, connecting to my physicality through movement or healing touch, captivating crowds with unique style, competing to be the best (and winning!) | |||
Sagittarius | Traveling and exploring new terrain, cutting loose on the dance floor or karaoke, cracking jokes with random strangers and becoming fast friends, attending classes and self-developments workshops, working on entrepreneurial ventures, outdoorsy adventures like biking and hiking, throwing dinner parties | |||
Capricorn | Pushing myself with a new challenge, getting public recognition for my hard work, mingling with the VIP influencers, attending exclusive and invite-only events, staying active with outdoor sports (skiing, mountain biking, hiking), providing for my family, reconnecting to childhood friends | |||
Aquarius | Communing with thought leaders and free spirits, having a transcendent moment on a vision quest, catching people off guard with practical jokes, playing team sports, participating in social change, wearing something totally unique (even shocking), supporting friends in moments of need | |||
Pisces | Immersing myself in music, diving into a fantasy world (through books, movies, video games), sharing cathartic conversations with friends, getting healing and holistic treatments, spending time at the beach, shopping (for shoes, crystals or vintage clothes), setting up meditative spaces at home | |||
SPECIAL POSITIONS | ||
Domicile | Leo | The planet’s home base, an easy flow if placed here in the chart |
Detriment | Aquarius | Opposite sign of home base, may need to work harder to integrate the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Exalted | Aries | The planet’s most powerful position, indicates ease and added fortune with using the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Fall | Libra | Opposite sign to the exalted position, can indicate struggles with utilizing the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |