Lesson 1: Design Your Dream Relationship
Saturn: Your Stability GPS
My Saturn is in (zodiac sign): _________________________
Right after jovial Jupiter comes stoic Saturn, the traditionalist and taskmaster of the skies. Your Saturn sign dictates your approach to structure and stability in love. Are you an eager adopter of relationship formalities, such as a weekly date night—or do your efforts to “keep it spontaneous” often backfire? Are you the marrying kind or do you prefer a more unconventional setup like “conscious non-monogamy”? The rules are yours to make, of course, and Saturn LOVES rules. But whatever the case, your Saturn sign wants you to move ahead with thoughtful intentions and clear agreements in place.
As the ruler of time, Saturn knows that good things come to those who wait. Your Saturn sign can reveal how patient (or impatient) you are with the process of creating REAL intimacy—the kind that takes time to establish. Saturn can also be repressive. Where it lands in your chart may reveal an area where you feel stuck or unwilling to take a chance in love. Usually, this is where you need to challenge yourself, and maybe even bring in an outside coach or counselor for guidance. Saturn applauds perseverance and can help you create lasting solutions to relationship issues, instead of quick-fix Band-Aids.
In your PDF worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts. |
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To feel stable in a relationship, I need: |
SATURN SIGNS AND LOVE: SUGGESTED KEYWORDS | ||||
Aries | Attention and positive feedback, consistency, calm, support with sticking to day-to-day structures and routines | |||
Taurus | Regular affection, motivating validation, family loyalty, a relaxing environment...but not so comfortable that you become stagnant | |||
Gemini | Shared social interests, to be listened to/have my ideas and opinions respected, frequent communication (ideally multiple times a day), being best friends with my partner | |||
Cancer | Emotional security, safety to express my feelings, family bonding time, a peaceful and nurturing home | |||
Leo | Encouragement to express my voice and talents, words of affirmation, support with managing finances, daily doses of romance | |||
Virgo | Quality time together, shared values and a high level of integrity, daily communication, healthy routines, constructive feedback | |||
Libra | Loving gestures, strong physical attraction, compliments on my beauty and style, a clearly stated commitment (ideally leading to marriage) | |||
Scorpio | Respect for my privacy and personal space, a soul-deep connection, strong sexual attraction, financial responsibility, unwavering loyalty, attentiveness to my specific needs and tastes | |||
Sagittarius | Total honesty, space to explore my independent interests, a warm and welcoming home, a willingness to grow together—to explore the world and learn | |||
Capricorn | A long-term commitment, shared financial values and work ethics, a strong sense of family, to be appreciated (and needed) for what I am providing | |||
Aquarius | A non-judgmental atmosphere, conscious lifestyle choices (socially, environmentally, etc.), a shared community, being each other's best friends, regular date nights and outings, acceptance of my "eccentricities" | |||
Pisces | Uninterrupted dreamtime, fantasy dates and personalized romantic gestures, confidence-boosting support, appreciation for the "little things" that I do, healing touch, a safe space for my highly sensitive emotions | |||
SPECIAL POSITIONS | ||
Domicile | Capricorn | The planet’s home base, an easy flow if placed here in the chart |
Detriment | Cancer | Opposite sign of home base, may need to work harder to integrate the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Exalted | Libra | The planet’s most powerful position, indicates ease and added fortune with using the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Fall | Aries | Opposite sign to the exalted position, can indicate struggles with utilizing the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |