Lesson 1: Design Your Dream Relationship
The Moon: Your Security GPS

My Moon is in (zodiac sign) ___________________________
Security check! The moon shows what you need in order to feel “at home” in the world and in your relationships. Do you require a lot of verbal reassurance or do you feel loved when people encourage you to take risks and shine? Do you need your own space or do you want to move in together as fast as possible? Even the way you build a nest egg can be revealed by the moon’s position in your chart. The moon is often thought of as the counterpart to the Sun: el Sol is expressive while la luna is receptive. The Sun’s energy radiates outward while the moon processes all that heat and energy coming our way. What pushes your buttons? Where are you most sensitive? And how much emotion do you reveal?
Because the moon spins on its axis at the same speed that it orbits planet Earth, we can only glimpse half of her from our vantage point down here. There really is a dark side of the moon; it’s not just the trippy name of a Pink Floyd album. This metaphor totally translates to the moon’s role in the chart. Every moon sign has its own light side—the obvious feelings that we are comfortable with expressing. And, then, there’s a dark side: the emotions that creep up and catch us by surprise; ones we may even try to reject within ourselves. Understanding your moon sign can bring a deep sense of self-knowledge, but may also be a lifelong quest for understanding.
In your PDF worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts. |
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To feel secure and fulfilled in relationships, I need: |
MOON SIGNS AND LOVE: SUGGESTED KEYWORDS | ||||
Aries | Undivided attention, adulation, compassion, physical affection, personal space, flexibility, excitement | |||
Taurus | Financial stability, loyalty, ease, comfort, familial connection, grounding, steady routines and rituals | |||
Gemini | Open communication, synergy, compatible social styles, shared interests, attentiveness, playfulness, variety | |||
Cancer | Emotional support, nurturing, safety, appreciation, acceptance, tenderness, sentimentality | |||
Leo | Praise, adoration, fun, enthusiasm, pampering, validation, treats and gifts | |||
Virgo | Reassurance, acceptance, devotion, reciprocity, purity, acknowledgment, appreciation | |||
Libra | Romantic gestures, compliments, peace, harmonious lifestyles, quality time, aesthetic stimulation, fairness | |||
Scorpio | Trust, strong sexual chemistry, sacred connection, loyalty, a safe space to be vulnerable, understanding, control | |||
Sagittarius | Curiosity, honesty, supportive wisdom, willingness to explore the world, physical chemistry, independence, levity | |||
Capricorn | Stability, command, integrity, patience, dedication, empathy, help with relaxing | |||
Aquarius | Friendship, open-mindedness, calm, compatible social circles, willingness to experiment, help identifying and expressing emotions, intelligent conversation | |||
Pisces | Empathy, spiritual chemistry, caring gestures, inter-dependence, clear boundaries, serenity, unhurried lifestyle | |||
SPECIAL POSITIONS | ||
Domicile | Cancer | The planet’s home base, an easy flow if placed here in the chart |
Detriment | Capricorn | Opposite sign of home base, may need to work harder to integrate the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Exalted | Taurus | The planet’s most powerful position, indicates ease and added fortune with using the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |
Fall | Scorpio | Opposite sign to the exalted position, can indicate struggles with utilizing the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart |