Lesson 1: Design Your Dream Relationship

The Moon: Your Security GPS


My Moon is in (zodiac sign) ___________________________

Security check! The moon shows what you need in order to feel “at home” in the world and in your relationships. Do you require a lot of verbal reassurance or do you feel loved when people encourage you to take risks and shine? Do you need your own space or do you want to move in together as fast as possible? Even the way you build a nest egg can be revealed by the moon’s position in your chart. The moon is often thought of as the counterpart to the Sun: el Sol is expressive while la luna is receptive. The Sun’s energy radiates outward while the moon processes all that heat and energy coming our way. What pushes your buttons? Where are you most sensitive? And how much emotion do you reveal?

Because the moon spins on its axis at the same speed that it orbits planet Earth, we can only glimpse half of her from our vantage point down here. There really is a dark side of the moon; it’s not just the trippy name of a Pink Floyd album. This metaphor totally translates to the moon’s role in the chart. Every moon sign has its own light side—the obvious feelings that we are comfortable with expressing. And, then, there’s a dark side: the emotions that creep up and catch us by surprise; ones we may even try to reject within ourselves. Understanding your moon sign can bring a deep sense of self-knowledge, but may also be a lifelong quest for understanding.  

In your PDF worksheet, fill in the blanks from the suggested keywords below or use them as prompts.

To feel secure and fulfilled in relationships, I need: 



MOON SIGNS AND LOVE: SUGGESTED KEYWORDS

Aries

Undivided attention, adulation, compassion, physical affection, personal space, flexibility, excitement

Taurus

Financial stability, loyalty, ease, comfort, familial connection, grounding, steady routines and rituals 

Gemini

Open communication, synergy, compatible social styles, shared interests, attentiveness, playfulness, variety

Cancer

Emotional support, nurturing, safety, appreciation, acceptance, tenderness, sentimentality

Leo

Praise, adoration, fun, enthusiasm, pampering, validation, treats and gifts

Virgo

Reassurance, acceptance, devotion, reciprocity, purity, acknowledgment, appreciation

Libra

Romantic gestures, compliments, peace, harmonious lifestyles, quality time, aesthetic stimulation, fairness

Scorpio

Trust, strong sexual chemistry, sacred connection, loyalty, a safe space to be vulnerable, understanding, control

Sagittarius

Curiosity, honesty, supportive wisdom, willingness to explore the world, physical chemistry, independence, levity

Capricorn

Stability, command, integrity, patience, dedication, empathy, help with relaxing

Aquarius

Friendship, open-mindedness, calm, compatible social circles, willingness to experiment, help identifying and expressing emotions, intelligent conversation

Pisces

Empathy, spiritual chemistry, caring gestures, inter-dependence, clear boundaries, serenity, unhurried lifestyle

SPECIAL POSITIONS

Domicile

Cancer

The planet’s home base, an easy flow if placed here in the chart

Detriment

Capricorn

Opposite sign of home base, may need to work harder to integrate the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart

Exalted

Taurus

The planet’s most powerful position, indicates ease and added fortune with using the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart

Fall

Scorpio

Opposite sign to the exalted position, can indicate struggles with utilizing the planet’s energy if placed here in the chart

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